I do not know how people in general keeps track of all the pushes and pops. It can sometimes be very difficult to keep track of this. As a help highlightning of pushes and pops, like parentheses and conditions, would be a great improvement of RadAsm.
:bg
you'll get used to it
or, maybe, you're just not smoking the good stuff :P
my brain has an internal stack pointer
You can change the highlight for push and pop in your assemblers INI file (ie masm.ini) under the [KeyWords] section. Just put it in a different group and set the color for that group to something that will stand out.